Parents have not understood that this is but one step in social development, the goal of which is to help the child begin to consider others.
As a result, they often have not considered their child but have instead allowed their child's reality to take precedence, out of a fear of damaging him emotionally.
Your Child’s Needs at Stages of Development
At
each stage of development your child needs different resources from his family. During your first year, a variety of experiences and the availability
of his parents for attachment are primary.
During his second and third years, stimulation of language development is critical. During his years prior to school entrance, information that persuades him that he is loved becomes critical, and during his school years, it is important for him to believe that he can succeed at the tasks he wants to master.
During his second and third years, stimulation of language development is critical. During his years prior to school entrance, information that persuades him that he is loved becomes critical, and during his school years, it is important for him to believe that he can succeed at the tasks he wants to master.
Your Child’s Most Important Need
Overall,
I don't believe that children can develop in a healthy way unless they feel
that they have value apart from anything they own or any skill that they learn.
They need to feel that they enhance the life of someone else, that they are needed. Who, better than parents, can let them know that?
They need to feel that they enhance the life of someone else, that they are needed. Who, better than parents, can let them know that?
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